How To Impress A Girl
For some reason we think that women are only impressed by men who are rich and famous, but that is not true. You don’t have to drive up in your Hummer or Corvette to impress a woman. You don’t have to flash a big wad of cash in front of her to impress her.
In fact, despite what you might think, actions like this tend to be a turn off, rather than a way to get attraction and pick up women. One of the biggest turnoffs is bragging. Someone who talks about how much money they have, how many famous people they know, how big their house is, what their jet setting lifestyle is like – all those conversations tell the girl one thing: what a bore.
My mother told me when I was very young that if you are really cool, you don’t need to tell anyone else.
This is so true.
Really cool people don’t need to tell anyone else how cool they are. Or why they are cool.
Another key thing to remember is that material possessions do not always impress a girl. I’m not saying that there are not girls out there seeking men with huge wallets. But trust, me, these are not the girls you want to spend time with. The girl’s you want to spend time with may want to date someone with their own place, a nice vehicle, a nice job, but usually because those are outward signs of a successful person.
The girl’s don’t care about the car, house, job, but they do care that the man behind them must obviously work hard or have other values they find impressive.
Take a good look at your life and what you are proud of accomplishing. It could be the fact that you paid your own way through college as a waiter. It could be the fact that you moved across the country from your family to start a new job. It could be that you spend your weekends as a Big Brother. Take a look at what you do that makes you proud and take confidence in this.
You don’t need to say anything about these successes or traits. At first. Eventually, as a woman gets to know you, they will naturally reveal themselves. And believe me; the woman will be even more impressed that you didn’t feel the need to brag about these things on your own.
Meanwhile, acknowledging your own successes to yourself will give you more self esteem and confidence. So even if you don’t tell anyone about them, you will naturally exude more charisma because you have recognized and acknowledged these successes to yourself.
It really is all about self talk. If you believe you are worthy, you are worthy. Not in a cocksure, I’m better than you way, but in a genuine love of self way.
The way to impress a girl is to acknowledge what you do right, what you have done right in the past, and what you will do right in the future. Any girl worth her salt will be impressed by this rather than material goods.
Bill has been studying how to pick up women and How to Flirt with women. He loves helping guys who have just read the new book, the pickup artist and are trying to get into the game of seducing women. The original article can be found here: How to Impress a Girl.
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